Everyone Loves You

Posted by Tamika on April 26, 2020

Pinned halfway down the dishwasher—at her eye level—was a handwritten note from her Aunt Ondrea with the words Everyone Loves You, Luna. Luna trotted by these words every day—and they were true. Anyone who didn’t love her didn’t know her…

I Love You—Now Change

Posted by Tamika on May 1, 2018

Trying to change someone never works—so why do we keep doing it? And why do other people do it to us? If this hit home for you, let me know, in the comments below. To your freedom, Tamika…

Assuming Innocence

Posted by Tamika on December 5, 2017

Speak your truth with love. The idea sounds simple, but it’s not always easy. In this 2-minute video, you’ll learn my #1 focus before initiating a difficult conversation. See you there, Tamika xo  …

Dating 101: The Soulmate You Haven’t Yet Met

Posted by Tamika on November 27, 2017

Dating can be hard work. For anyone who’s had their heart broken, hopes crushed, or trust betrayed, it can be agonizing. So many people give up on love because they feel worn out, used up, or sick of being let…

Video: How Boundaries Saved my Life

Posted by Tamika on November 1, 2016

All you need is love—and boundaries. Boundaries are like love. They always get the attention of the Universe. Wait—can’t I just have the love part? I’m a lover, not a fighter—can’t we all just get along and be happy?…