When It’s Hard to Forgive

Posted by Tamika on September 8, 2020

If you’ve ever had your heart trampled, you know how difficult it can be to forgive. You might want to forgive, but not be ready yet. You might find yourself striving in that direction but don’t feel a sense of…

Everyone Loves You

Posted by Tamika on April 26, 2020

Pinned halfway down the dishwasher—at her eye level—was a handwritten note from her Aunt Ondrea with the words Everyone Loves You, Luna. Luna trotted by these words every day—and they were true. Anyone who didn’t love her didn’t know her…

Three Sentences Used in Emotionally Mature Relationships

Posted by Tamika on April 15, 2019

These three sentences come from couples counselling theory, but they work in any close relationship. Are you using these phrases with the people you love? I’d love to hear about your experience with this. Until Soon, Tamika Watch the…

I Heard a Rumour About Myself

Posted by Tamika on November 5, 2018

I heard a rumour about myself. And it hurt. It hurt a lot. Especially because I’d given so much to this person. As helpless as I felt, I knew I had a choice: I could either fire that judgement back…

Why Blessed is Messed

Posted by Tamika on September 10, 2018

Have you ever said “I’m so blessed,” when something beautiful happens? I certainly have. But frankly, sometimes when this phrase comes up, I die a little inside. Have you had this experience too? I’d love to hear from you, in…