I Love You—Now Change

Posted by Tamika on May 1, 2018

Trying to change someone never works—so why do we keep doing it? And why do other people do it to us? If this hit home for you, let me know, in the comments below. To your freedom, Tamika…

Befuddled? (Video) 5 Ways to Cope with Speeded up Times

Posted by Tamika on January 21, 2018

Hello, beautiful. Life is moving fast, isn’t it? Speeded up times can leave us spinning in all directions, especially if we aren’t grounded and focused. Here’s 5 tips in 5 minutes—’cause I know you’re busy! What’s your way of managing…

Assuming Innocence

Posted by Tamika on December 5, 2017

Speak your truth with love. The idea sounds simple, but it’s not always easy. In this 2-minute video, you’ll learn my #1 focus before initiating a difficult conversation. See you there, Tamika xo  …

Dating 101: The Soulmate You Haven’t Yet Met

Posted by Tamika on November 27, 2017

Dating can be hard work. For anyone who’s had their heart broken, hopes crushed, or trust betrayed, it can be agonizing. So many people give up on love because they feel worn out, used up, or sick of being let…

Video: How Boundaries Saved my Life

Posted by Tamika on November 1, 2016

All you need is love—and boundaries. Boundaries are like love. They always get the attention of the Universe. Wait—can’t I just have the love part? I’m a lover, not a fighter—can’t we all just get along and be happy?…